Who We Are
619-272-6485 ext. 104
Ruby Tovar-Morin , MS MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
“When I was 16, I decided I wanted be a therapist. What I didn’t know then was why I was so attracted to the idea of helping people. As a college student I realized that trying to be what other people needed helped me feel in control. Keeping it together was very important to me. I had rules to follow: don’t cry, don’t express, don’t feel, be strong, and move on. But that didn’t work for long. I eventually found myself in therapy and began working through my own life story. There I acknowledged that I had an immense amount of sadness, anger and resentment about my family dynamics. I realized that my unhealthy strategies were an attempt to cope with those painful experiences. I saw clearly that my past was corrupting my present. So I learned to grieve and feel all over again. This was truly freeing and allowed me to have deeper and healthier relationships.
As a therapist, I will help you face where you have been and what you have lived through to help you understand your present. We’ll focus on how you are currently doing, your behavior, and your feelings. We’ll explore your relationships, your thoughts and then look back at your life to make sense of it all. I know this process can be scary, but it won’t be as painful as when it happened. It will create freedom and a more whole you, allowing you to have closer and deeper relationships. I invite you to join me in this process of moving through your past to a renewed present where old wounds no longer corrupt your life or have power over you.”
Ruby has worked with adults, adolescents, children and families. She completed her practicum at a community counseling center in Ventura County providing therapy to a wide range of clients dealing with relational issues as well as serious mental health conditions. Ruby was a lead therapist at the YWCA of San Diego County and worked with victims of domestic violence and abuse in individual or group therapy.
Ruby specializes in:
- EMDR part I & II trained
- Adult survivors of childhood trauma: sexual, physical, and emotional abuse
- Unsatisfying relationship patterns and sexual acting out
- Adult trauma: domestic violence and self-harm
- Support and care for caregivers and loved ones of aging parents going through Alzhiemers and/or elderly chronic diseases
*Ruby provides therapy in both English and Spanish.
LICENSING, ASSOCIATIONS AND AFFILIATIONS
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist LMFT#90111
Member of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)
Member of the American Psychological Association (APA)
Member of the Western Psychological Association (WPA)
Member of PSI CHI The National Honor Society in Psychology
B.A. in Psychology with Concentration in Therapeutic and Community Psychology from Point Loma Nazarene University
M.S. in Counseling Psychology with Concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy from California Lutheran University